tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2873285922620200649.post7903754423851126244..comments2023-07-06T14:50:06.294+03:00Comments on Ki Yachol Nuchal!: Mothers United to Save a Boyrutimizrachihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06809119908148195009noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2873285922620200649.post-69666990548583848812013-02-05T22:40:55.594+02:002013-02-05T22:40:55.594+02:00Michelle: I hear your concern, and your love. Of...Michelle: I hear your concern, and your love. Of course, we don't know the answer. We have to trust that this mother knows her son enough to know if he would be mortified or helped by her "interference." May it be that she has wisdom and clarity and Heavenly guidance. I don't remember where I learned it: but there is a concept that if we are truly trying to do the right thing, for the sake of Heaven, that our audience hears what we meant to say, even if the words are imperfect. May it be that her son only feels the love, and no embarrassment. And may his mother have reason to thank G-d for long, happy, healthy years, for His inspiration.<br /><br />Rebecca: Thank you for your wisdom, and your recommendations. May they reach their target, and be truly helpful.rutimizrachihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06809119908148195009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2873285922620200649.post-40404106059263345562013-02-01T01:34:07.003+02:002013-02-01T01:34:07.003+02:00My heart goes out to Noah and to all those childre...My heart goes out to Noah and to all those children and teenagers who have "broken hearts". I can tell you though, as someone in the mental health field, the best way to help a child heal is not by labels, psycho-tropic drugs and hospitalizations. Most of the psychiatric drugs today unfortunately cause suicidal ideation, depression and anxiety. Many psychiatrists and well intentioned but uninformed doctors, social workers, counselors and psychologists have jumped on the bandwagon to label and medicate children and it leads to a life of switching from one drug to another or adding one on top of another and still another. These drugs are addictive and it is virtually impossible to get off of them. In addition, they produce physical and emotional side effects. The best way to help Noah is to provide him with a nurturing environment and a supportive therapist who will not tell him he has a "disease" and needs to be medicated for life. If his school has a bunch of bullies who are mean, change his school and find one that will make him feel supported and safe. Use a strength/interest/hobby that he has, to get involved in, so he can shine and feel special. Get him involved in volunteering on a project of his liking. Empowerment and love are the best healers! I will keep him in my prayers. Sweet Noah, G-d loves you very much! You are a precious precious soul. I recommend that the parent purchase the book "Your Drug Might Be Your Problem" and The Anti-Depressant Fact Book" by Dr. Peter Breggin. May G-d keep him safe!Rebeccanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2873285922620200649.post-48301710868816673632013-01-31T23:52:58.862+02:002013-01-31T23:52:58.862+02:00This is a beautiful concept. My only concern is t...This is a beautiful concept. My only concern is the embarassment this 12 year old boy might feel when he realizes this personal information has been shared with the world. Did he consent to his mom's project?Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01487930354840443508noreply@blogger.com